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its getting cold out lets cuddle

Gosh I find this part to be a challange. We are all changing constantly as we experience more of life. I am not looking to change anyones situation just, live some, laugh lots and love much.I am curiuos by nature. I'd like for each of us to be comfortable and still meet our needs. We can help each other yet still keep things simple. I choose to live, love and laugh.
Okay ladies I hear over and over you want honesty! Me too. I have made a decision not seek a long term relationship at this time in my life (what??) Yup I had that for 30 years and figure I cannot replace that, I have tried and well somethings in life really may be once in a life time. So here I am today, with all these years of living and looking to spend some quality with a deserving lady. I can only offer you short periods of time not LTR. Do you want someone who will pay attention, treat you like no one else matters when we are together or more of the same old *** you have been putting up with. I am not concerned about your past, present or your future, I am here to live if that means being alone so be it!! I as a widower feel compelled to be discrete. I like to be private for my own reasons period. I do not do video, or take photo's. I may upset some of you, please if so ignore me, this message is obviously not for you you have the same choices as I do. I just want some passion in my life while I am healthy and can. I am not concerned about your present situation, married, seperated, living together, single, divorced etc. it dose not matter. What does matter is having some love in your life. It does matter connecting with someone, it does matter sharing moments of time with whom you choose, we only live once and thats it. If you contact me and make plans (and do not not show up) at least give me the time of day before I get all dressed up and then let down, ok? Besides it will be your loss I am confident I am a good guy who is just lonely as you are. So I hope someone can handle a bit of honesty out here. Now lets live.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageFrench
BuildA few extra pounds
Height178 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureLegs
Health ConditionNo special condition
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchsomeone who can shut their troubles out for a little while, someone who understands life is short and to just love the person you are with as long as you both are getting something out of it, some who has passion and enjoys what can happen between a man and woman, someone who is not judgemental and can giggle and have a little bit of naughty fun. Some one who want s live in the moment and just be.
Our first datedose not matter. we can figure that out together it is why we are here. life is way to serious I do not want to get crazy just let nature take its course.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":ask me